The inventor of the idea of sex education being taught from early
grades in mainstream education thought that it'd be beneficial to
societies in the same way as I've been maintaining for years that
teaching NLP from early grades in schools would. So how? What payback
would governments get in the long term if they invested in the
implementation of this idea?
For
starters, since NLP studies and models human excellence, achievement,
success, betterment, and the differences that make the differences
between the excellent and the rest, its purpose is not bad in itself. If
on one hand we talk about and grapple with societal problems with
marginalized communities, delinquency, crime, the widening gap between
the rich and the poor, and diminishing [or complete lack of] respect for
the roles of the police, courts, authorities, and prisons, but on the
other hand leave the fortunes of the benefits of teaching NLP from young
age on the table, isn't that a great waste?
So what would the benefits be of teaching NLP in schools?
NLP
would teach people to understand and implement the principles of CLEAR
communication from an early age. Just as it is with learning a foreign
language or a musical instrument, so it is with learning NLP skills and
the skills to communicate clearly. The sooner one starts, the better for
one's future. NLP skills and clear communication would prevent
misunderstandings in people's personal and professional relationships.
In personal relationships this would help toward decreasing divorce
rates, lightening the load for the courts and the police [attending to
incidents of domestic violence etc.], where costs would be saved for all
of us in taxation, and the quality of police service would increase,
because the police members would not be overwhelmed by excessive
paperwork on too many cases that could have been prevented in the first
place. In professional relationships NLP and clear communication skills
would prevent misunderstandings that are costly to businesses in time,
money, energy, and reputation. Lengthy meetings, job interviews, and
negotiations that often turn out to be ambiguous or vague and don't
produce results anyway would not be an issue. Productivity, efficiency,
staff morale, and motivation would increase and everyone would benefit
on both sides of the shop counter.
NLP would teach people respect.
Respect for our environments, respect for our ways of doing things,
respect for our differences in ways of doing one thing, respect for our
capabilities and different sets of skills, respect for our differences
in what we believe and most and least value and why, as well as respect
for who - and how very different - we all are individually and
culturally. Respect is important, yet many people lose it very quickly -
if they ever had it in the first place. And without respect there's
apathy, violence, destruction, and wars... Just look at the news - the
news that sells best and travels the fastest is bad news. The London UK
riots of September 2011 could not be a more beautiful example of lost
respect for everything by the thugs who never had respect in the first
place and instead just had big mouths and the attitudes that the world
owed them a living. The wars over oil causing diplomatic manipulation by
certain countries is an example of lack of respect for many things -
how could manipulation and respect ever go hand in hand? To me, they're
mutually exclusive! Or take wars over religious differences between - or
even amongst - many countries of the world present or past. Isn't any
war an example of a lack of respect for another's religion? If I
practise religion A and you practise religion B, and I come to you and
force you to convert to religion A, how is that my respect for you and
what you believe? If NLP was taught to children from their elementary
school age, they would know no other but to exercise respect for others
their environments, behaviors, beliefs, and identities.
NLP would
teach people to observe and question, rather than take things on the
face value and put up with them against their will - brainwashed. Giving
ourselves time to observe eliminates jumping into snap conclusions
which are based on our interpretation of a situation and thus may have
nothing to do with how the situation really is. Observation can spur
creativity... photography, sculpture, architecture, and many other
visual art forms are based solely on this principle. Observation is a
great source of learning.
NLP would teach people acceptance of
each other's cultural, religious, and social differences. Have I
mentioned me wanting to convert you to religion A without accepting the
fact that your religion B might be what you prefer and might be as good
as my religion A? Why would I be so manipulative as to want to convert
you to my ways of life? Because I'm not willing to accept you as you
are, and I'm not willing to accept that your opinions, religion, and
ways of doing things might be valid as well, albeit done differently
from mine.
NLP would teach people work ethic. Now this phenomenon
of work ethic is something that many young people of today in some
countries of the world more than in others don't even know, as opposed
to have lost [as some would say]. They don't know what work ethic is for
two primary reasons. 1. since they come born into a world where every
conceivable material object already exists and can be obtained, they
have no incentive to work to invent new ways of improving the world -
everything's laid on for them. Reason 2 is that since survival is so
easy in the developed parts of today's world, and many parents spoil
their children by buying them everything the children dream up, the
children have no idea of the value of the objects they get showered with
by their well-meaning parents, nor do the children have any idea of the
value of money and earning it. Since NLP teaches respect, acceptance,
the differences that make the differences, and modeling success, work
ethic would have to be a natural byproduct of people's ways of life if
NLP was taught in mainstream schools from early age.
Would
implementing teaching NLP in mainstream education cost governments and
the taxpayers? Since nothing in life is free and there's always a price
to pay for everything one way or another, yes, it certainly would. But
the principle "spend money to make money" from the governments' point of
view, as well as that of the "upfront investment in quality will turn
out cheaper in the long term" would most certainly apply in this case.
The operational costs of teaching NLP in schools would turn out to be
money well spent if the money were to buy healthier, happier, more
respectful, more responsible, and more productive members of societies.
What's your opinion?